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Growing Up in Violence: A Cycle Continued

Megan Ashley Lipa Cary openly acknowledges growing up in a violent and dysfunctional household.⁽¹⁾ Her father, Robert Lipa, drank heavily and routinely brutalised the household, often splintering doors, beating their mother, and terrorising both children.⁽²⁾ While Jamie Murray cycled through a string of live-in lovers while raising her children, family insiders allege that in the Lipa years a teenage Kevin Lindke sexually assaulted younger male cousins; early proof that the household’s violence had already morphed into outright predation.

Decades of research show why: children who witness or endure domestic violence are up to 1.7 times more likely to commit violent abuse as adults. Kevin’s criminal record, and Megan’s willingness to enable it, reads like a textbook confirmation. But instead of breaking the chain, Megan has tightened it: she moved her own daughter, Tessa, into the very orbit of the dangerous men who once terrorised her, and now shields Kevin from accountability while parroting the family’s victim narrative. The result is an unbroken chain of abuse passed down to the next child, manufactured in Robert Lipa’s living room, refined by Jamie Murray’s courtroom theatrics, and exported to the next innocent child in line.

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A Disturbing Pattern of Abuse and Neglect

Private messages between Megan Cary and Riley, Kevin Lindke’s ex-girlfriend, expose shocking details of severe domestic violence. Riley explicitly documents episodes where Kevin physically assaulted her, including being strangled and thrown out of their home while he actively taunted her.^{(3)(4)(5)(6)(7)(8)(9)}The accompanying photos capture rooms torn apart and a woman in utter despair.⁽¹⁰⁾

Despite clear and urgent pleas for support, Megan Cary offered dismissive responses, shifted blame back onto Riley, and deflected responsibility, effectively treating Kevin’s violence like an inconvenient rumor. Her wilful minimization of the assaults, and total failure to act, left Riley trapped, stuck in danger while Megan shielded her violent brother; a pattern emerging consistently across the Lindke family.

Even after Megan explicitly conceded, “He needs help Ri. He isn’t well,” she flat-out ignored the legal duties that come with her nursing license. Under MCL 722.623⁽¹¹⁾ nurses must report suspected child abuse; under MCL 400.11⁽¹²⁾ they must report abuse or neglect of a vulnerable adult; and MCL 750.411⁽²⁴⁾ makes it a misdemeanor for any healthcare professional to fail to notify police when treating injuries that may stem from violence, regardless of the victim’s age. Michigan law also shields reporters with confidentiality and civil-liability immunity (MCL 400.11c). Yet Megan did nothing: no call to police, no report to Adult Protective Services, no outreach to a domestic violence advocate.

Her dereliction was not a one-off lapse, it spanned months. Each plea met the same chilling pattern: Megan downplayed the danger, redirected blame onto Riley, and moved on. By choosing silence, Megan not only broke the law, she granted Kevin a tacit green light to escalate, directly prolonging and intensifying Riley’s suffering.

In short, Megan’s own words prove she knew, state law proves she had a duty, and her inaction proves she chose her violent brother over an endangered victim, violating state statutes, the Nightingale Pledge, and the American Nurses Association Code of Ethics. This is professional misconduct that should have the Michigan Bureau of Professional Licensing yanking her license yesterday.

Malicious Professional Misconduct

In another glaring breach of ethics, Megan Cary maliciously spread confidential mental-health information about a fellow healthcare worker.⁽¹³⁾ Leveraging sensitive details about another individual’s struggles, she circulated damaging gossip that triggered professional consequences and personal anguish for the victim.

It’s the Lindke family manual, word for word: strip-mine a target’s private life, distort the facts into a reputational bludgeon, and batter them into silence. Armed with a nurse’s access to sensitive data and an unblinking drive to sanitize her family’s violence, Megan shows herself not as a caregiver but as a co-conspirator—just as criminal as the brother she shields.

On LinkedIn, Megan Cary styles herself as a “highly skilled and compassionate Registered Nurse” whose 16-year career is defined by “patient-centered care” and “advocacy for high-quality healthcare.”⁽²³⁾ Yet every major incident chronicled in this investigation tells the opposite story. When faced with an actively strangled domestic violence victim, Megan offered no clinical intervention, no report to authorities, and no empathy, violating the very standards she claims to champion. She weaponized confidential health information against a colleague, smeared grieving families to shield her demolition-magnate relatives, and exposed her own daughter to a household notorious for violence and substance abuse.

That contradiction did not go unnoticed: shortly after her misconduct surfaced publicly, Megan locked down or deleted the very LinkedIn profile that once advertised her “compassionate” brand. The résumé remains polished; the reality is anything but.

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Social Media Manipulation and Victimhood

Megan Cary’s online presence further amplifies her manipulative and deceitful tendencies. She strategically portrays herself as a victim of harassment and injustice, while simultaneously engaging in aggressive online behavior, public attacks, and orchestrated campaigns of misinformation. Megan’s hypocrisy is evident in her public declarations seeking community sympathy, despite repeatedly victimizing and smearing others.^{(14)(15)(16)(17)}

Complicity in Family Corporate Cover-ups

Megan helps lead the Lindke/Murray family’s disinformation campaign, scrubbing all trace of their egregious OSHA violations and flagrant corporate misconduct tied to their demolition empire. She floods social media with calculated spin, erasing the Lindke/Murray clan’s liability while smearing anyone who dares recount the truth.⁽¹⁸⁾ The result: victims already maimed or bereaved by the company’s negligence are retraumatized, mocked, and shouted down. Shoulder-to-shoulder with Kevin, she has waged a vicious campaign of harassment against surviving families, blaming the casualties rather than the crooks who caused them.

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Fundraising for False Heroes

In another disturbing display of complicity, continuing her pattern of deceit, Megan Cary actively organized fundraising efforts for Kevin Lindke via GoFundMe, falsely portraying him as an innocent victim targeted unfairly by authorities.⁽¹⁹⁾ This campaign, titled “Dads Don’t Quit,” attempted to sanitize Kevin’s violent and manipulative behaviors, painting him falsely as a champion for fatherhood rights. In reality, Kevin’s record is riddled with violence, intimidation, and psychological abuse.

Infidelity, Deceit, and Manipulation

Represented by Lisa Stern, an attorney well-known for exploiting legal systems and perpetuating falsehoods on behalf of her clients (as extensively documented on JamieMurray.net), Megan accused her husband of draining bank accounts, leaving the family financially destitute, and attempting to “steal” their daughter, Tessa Grace Cary.⁽²⁰⁾ These allegations were unequivocally debunked. Darryl had responsibly invested family assets into a mutually agreed investment account; far from the reckless and deceitful portrayal Stern and Megan presented in court. This incident starkly demonstrates not only Megan’s dishonesty but Stern’s complicity in weaponizing the legal system to further Lindke family lies, bleeding them financially and morally dry.

Sworn filings, and Darryl Cary’s own sworn statements, lay out a sordid trail of Megan’s serial cheating.⁽²¹⁾ Affair after affair punctuated the marriage, culminating in the revelation that she was engaged to two men at once: Darryl and a second fiancé named Donnie.⁽²²⁾ The double-ring scheme makes Megan’s defining trait unmistakable.

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Grooming and Targeting Younger Victims

Multiple classmates confirm that Kevin, extremely unpopular among peers, latched onto Megan’s younger friend group, hitting on teen girls and, at age 22, buying alcohol for a 15-year-old named _{*redacted for privacy*}.⁽³⁰⁾ That booze run ended in an underage drinking crash, injuries, and criminal prosecution.⁽²⁷⁾ Insiders have also accused Kevin of molesting younger male cousins during his teens. Instead of shielding potential victims, Megan funneled new targets his way and even stalked existing ones: when longtime victim Devin Strzelecki dined out with his mother, Megan snapped photos of him and fed them to Kevin’s smear page.⁽²⁸⁾ Her role as pipeline and lookout shows just how deeply she participates in her brother’s predatory agenda.

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Endangering Her Own Child

Perhaps most chilling of all is Megan’s decision to plant her daughter, Tessa, inside Jamie Murray’s perpetual horror show at 3445 St. Clair Shores Blvd, St. Clair, MI. Divorce filings confirm Megan, Darryl, and Tessa have occupied that house for the last five years, the same address Kevin Lindke uses as a hideout whenever police come knocking. Kevin’s own livestreams, filmed from those rooms, show him pounding liquor, cursing, and slipping into violent rages.

Megan witnessed every red flag yet still kept Tessa under that roof, exposing a child to a revolving door of fugitives, booze-fueled tirades, and constant violence. It is hard to conceive of greater parental negligence: a mother who knowingly trades her daughter’s safety and emotional stability for the convenience of staying in the family bunker. This reckless endangerment isn’t an outlier; it is the Lindke family’s ethos in action.

Raising Children, Growing Cannabis

While Megan publicly touts healthy living, Kevin Lindke was running what witnesses call a full-scale marijuana grow in Jamie Murray’s basement, the exact address where Megan chose to raise her daughter, Tessa. A former contractor states he “definitely saw the grow operation,”⁽²⁵⁾ and Kevin himself bragged on Facebook about hauling “pounds in turkey bags,”⁽²⁶⁾ complete with a photo of bulk cannabis on his lap. Licensed or not, the operation brought fire hazards, armed thieves, and steady foot traffic into a house already saturated with violence, another reckless gamble with a child’s safety that Megan either ignored or enabled.

Official case files show Kevin’s involvement with sizable cannabis operations is hardly new. In 2014 he faced a felony charge for delivery / manufacture of 5–45 kilograms of marijuana, secured by a $10,000 personal bond.⁽²⁹⁾ This docket sits alongside a string of possession arrests over the past dozen years, many quietly dismissed as the state’s cannabis laws loosened. Despite claiming unemployment and routinely receiving court fee waivers for living below the federal poverty line, Kevin Lindke appears to bankroll himself through untaxed, unreported marijuana sales, yet another way he games the system while financing the family’s ongoing harassment machine.

Given the circumstances, it is hard to ignore the obvious question: with Kevin on the run and Megan unemployed for most of 2025, yet still living in the house where the grow-op sits, who was minding the crop? Circumstantial logic points to the only adult left under that roof with the mental capacity to handle the large-scale operation. If Megan was indeed the day-to-day caretaker of the plants while raising her daughter in the same house, she was not merely tolerating the felony enterprise but actively sustaining it. While definitive proof remains to be uncovered, every practical indicator puts Megan at the center of the operation during her brother’s extended absence.

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A Call for Immediate Accountability

Megan Cary’s consistent pattern of dangerous enabling, ethical breaches, malicious professional conduct, and deliberate manipulation underscores profound character failures that demand immediate accountability, starting with a full investigation by the Michigan Bureau of Professional Licensing and referral to law-enforcement agencies. Her actions have directly endangered multiple victims, perpetuated cycles of violence and abuse, and manipulated public perception for personal gain.

The community deserves, and must demand, transparency, accountability, and justice. Megan Cary’s actions and character represent a serious threat to public welfare, professional integrity, and the fundamental ethical standards of care and decency. Immediate corrective actions and scrutiny by relevant regulatory bodies are not merely recommended: They are urgently required.

Take action now: File a formal complaint with Michigan LARA regarding Megan Cary’s misconduct at https://www.michigan.gov/lara/bureau-list/bpl/complaint.

_{Authored by Rita Skeeter with the help of Radar Murray
Published on August 3rd, 2025}

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